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Winning Multi-Stakeholder Deals in the Modern Buying Journey

Winning Multi-Stakeholder Deals in the Modern Buying Journey A conversation with Marty Overman, EVP of Americas Sales at Darktrace. Executive Summary Enterprise buying has fundamentally changed. Most sales teams haven’t caught up. In this episode of The Revenue Lounge, Marty Overman, EVP of Americas Sales at Darktrace, draws on two decades in cybersecurity to explain why the old playbook is broken and what the best sellers are doing instead. The core shift: buyers arrive informed. By the time they engage a rep, they’ve researched the product, talked to peers, and formed a view. The rep who shows up to pitch has already lost the room. What buyers need now is a sense maker. Someone who understands their specific problem well enough to show how a solution actually works in their environment, not just on a spec sheet. Marty’s framework centers on the distinction between product experts and problem experts. Product expertise is table stakes; problem expertise requires genuine curiosity, the right questions, and the discipline to orchestrate the right internal resources at the right moments across a long buying cycle. The conversation also covers the deal signals that matter most (single-threaded engagement is a red flag; multi-functional coverage is the fix), the metrics most teams get wrong (pipeline is the easiest to fake; retention is the hardest to recover from), and what sales leaders need to build right now to stay ahead of a market changing faster than any enablement program can keep up with. Facebook Twitter Youtube Introduction The enterprise sales environment has changed. Buyers are more informed, CFOs are more skeptical, and the old playbook of showing up with a data sheet and running a demo is no longer enough. Marty Overman, Executive Vice President of Sales for the Americas at Darktrace, has spent two decades navigating the cybersecurity market. From Cisco in its early days through Palo Alto Networks, McAfee, and now Darktrace’s AI-driven platform. In a recent conversation on The Revenue Lounge, she offered a candid look at what’s broken in enterprise selling today, and what the best teams are doing differently. The Buying Environment Has Fundamentally Shifted To understand where we are, you have to understand how we got here. During COVID, enterprises spent aggressively on remote access, cloud solutions, and SaaS tools, often without the time or discipline to evaluate whether purchases fit together. The result was a lot of tech debt, half-deployed products, and frustrated security teams overwhelmed by tools they never fully adopted. Now, the pendulum has swung. “CFOs are looking at it, CISOs are looking at it, anybody who’s got any responsibility for a P&L is saying, do we actually have to spend this money? Because we bought that stuff four or five years ago, we overbought, we overspent.” That scrutiny isn’t going away. Marty is quick to point out that this isn’t primarily a macroeconomic story. Companies still have the capital. The shift is behavioral. Every dollar now has to justify itself against competing growth investments, and buyers have learned from their own missteps. Sellers who don’t account for this reality will lose deals they used to close easily. Buyers Don’t Need You Early. They Need You Smart Research consistently shows that buyers now prefer to conduct significant research before engaging a sales rep. A widely-cited Gartner figure puts roughly 60% of buyers preferring a rep-free experience up to a certain point in their journey. Marty doesn’t push back on this. She builds her coaching around it. The implication isn’t that sellers are irrelevant. It’s that the moment they enter the conversation has changed, and so has the value they need to bring. “The more information that’s available, the more a human has to help cut through some of that and help make sense of it. You don’t necessarily need a salesperson anymore, you need a sense maker.” By the time a buyer wants to engage with a rep, they’ve already checked the spec sheet. They’ve talked to peers. They may know your product better than a junior rep does. What they can’t get from a spec sheet is clarity on whether it actually solves their specific problem, in their specific environment, given everything else they’ve already bought and deployed. That’s the opening for a great seller. The Problem Expert vs. the Product Expert Marty draws a sharp line between two types of sellers: product experts and problem experts. Product expertise is table stakes. Anyone can memorize features and fire up a polished demo. Problem expertise requires something harder: genuine curiosity about the customer’s world. “Being a problem expert requires you to ask the questions and to seek to understand.” Her analogy here is useful. The best doctors don’t show up already knowing the answer. They ask questions about when the pain started, how the injury happened, what movements make it worse. They’re not doing this to fill time. They’re taking in information that shapes a treatment plan. A seller who rushes to pitch before understanding is like a doctor who prescribes before diagnosing. The practical coaching implication: when you’re talking to a customer, your job is not to inform them about your product. It’s to understand their problem well enough that you can show them what the product actually does for them, how it transforms their workflows, reduces pressure on their team, and integrates with what they already own. Demonstrating Operational Reality, Not Just Capability One of the more actionable practices Marty describes is what Darktrace calls a workflow impact assessment, conducted during a proof of value (POV). The problem it solves: buyers have been burned by products that did the thing on paper but never got fully deployed because nobody mapped out how the tool would actually slot into existing operations. Teams are overwhelmed. Nobody’s getting more headcount. A product that adds complexity rather than reducing it will sit unused and won’t renew. “Really being able to show them how they’re actually gonna work with and interact with the tool. It just improves the likelihood that you’re

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The Evolving Role of SDRs: Navigating Outbound Fatigue & Embracing Buying Groups

The Evolving Role of SDRs: Navigating Outbound Fatigue & Embracing Buying Groups A conversation with Kelly Lichtenberger, VP Sales Development at HiBob. Sales development is at a crossroads. What once worked—mass sequences, endless dials, and a “spray-and-pray” approach, is now leading to diminishing returns. Buyers are fatigued, inboxes are overflowing, and SDRs are burning out. Yet, building top-of-funnel pipeline is still one of the most critical levers for revenue growth. So, how does the modern SDR team succeed in an environment defined by noise, automation, and shrinking buyer attention spans? In this episode of The Revenue Lounge, Kelly Lichtenberger, VP of Sales Development at HiBob and author of Prospect Like a Girl: Winning in Sales Using Your Emotional Intelligence Over Artificial Intelligence, shared her perspective on building authentic connections, leveraging emotional intelligence, and balancing technology with personalization. Here’s the detailed breakdown of her insights. Facebook Twitter Youtube From Phonebooks to AI: Kelly’s Journey Through Sales Development Kelly’s career started long before SDR platforms and LinkedIn existed. She recalls flipping through phone books, driving past office buildings, and tracking down numbers to call. “When I started my career, there was no Google, no AI. We literally had a phone book. If I drove down a highway and saw a new sign on a building, I’d try to figure out how to call them.” – Kelly Lichtenberger Her path took her from running her own outsourcing company to consulting, and ultimately to leading HiBob’s 60+ global SDR team. That breadth of experience shapes her philosophy today: technology should enhance—not replace—the human connection in sales. The Great Ignore: Why Outbound Fatigue Is Real Kelly calls today’s prospecting environment “heavy.” Before COVID, it took ~11 touches to reach a prospect. During COVID, that ballooned to ~18. Today, SDRs need 25–27 touches across 45 days to break through. And prospects are more sophisticated than ever: They recognize templated, generic messages instantly. They consume information across fragmented channels (email, phone, LinkedIn, mobile). They’re trained to hit “delete” on irrelevant outreach. “If you keep doing the same thing over and over with zero results, it’s the definition of insanity. You have to change it up. Personalization and creativity are the differentiators now.” – Kelly Lichtenberger https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8MVl8JiFiE Quality Over Quantity: Rethinking SDR KPIs For years, SDR success was measured in sheer volume—calls made, emails sent, meetings set. But Kelly warns that volume alone creates diminishing returns. At HiBob, her team focuses on: Meetings completed (not just scheduled) Pipeline acceptance rate (ensuring quality over filler opportunities) Multi-threading impact (how many stakeholders they can influence in a buying group) Personalization at Scale: The New SDR Playbook Kelly believes personalization isn’t optional anymore—it’s the SDR’s competitive edge. And it goes beyond “Hi {FirstName}” tokens. Some tactics HiBob SDRs use: LinkedIn signals: tracking job changes, posts, and shared connections. Video outreach: short, phone-friendly videos to stand out in a crowded inbox. Creativity tests: A/B testing creative messages, then templatizing winners into sequences. “Please keep saying the phone call is dead—because that’s where I win. But it’s not about feature dumps on voicemails. It’s about elevating your game and being interested, not interesting.” – Kelly Lichtenberger Emotional Intelligence > Artificial Intelligence Kelly’s book, Prospect Like a Girl, argues that emotional intelligence (EI) is more important than artificial intelligence (AI) in modern sales. While AI helps SDRs save time (e.g., autodialers, transcription, sequencing), the differentiator is still human connection. EI Builds Trust: Asking, “Maybe you can help me?” opens doors faster than product pitches. EI Reads the Room: SDRs must listen, not bulldoze. Prospects already know a lot before taking the call. EI Creates Curiosity: The goal isn’t to close in the first message—it’s to spark interest and earn the next touch. “No is as powerful as yes. Maybe is what kills the deal.” – Kelly Lichtenberger The Buying Group Motion: Moving Beyond MQLs Kelly echoes what many modern revenue leaders believe: the era of the individual MQL is over. HiBob’s team is experimenting with buying group strategies: Creating early-stage opportunity “containers” for accounts showing swarming signals. Engaging multiple champions instead of betting on one lead. Aligning with marketing to ensure SDRs aren’t just chasing scores but confirming initiatives with multiple stakeholders. What Traits Make a Successful SDR in 2025? Interestingly, HiBob often hires SDRs without sales experience. Kelly looks for traits over résumés: Coachability – willingness to be trained. Curiosity – ability to teach even their leaders new tools or perspectives. Resilience – grit to handle rejection and keep evolving. “Sales isn’t Friday golf and making money. It’s really hard work. But if someone shows me their why and willingness to be coached, I’ll give them a chance.” – Kelly Lichtenberger Will AI Replace SDRs? Kelly Says No The elephant in the room: will AI make SDRs obsolete? Kelly’s answer: absolutely not. AI is a productivity booster, not a replacement. Just like Netflix didn’t stop us from watching movies—it changed how we consume them—AI will change how SDRs prospect, not eliminate them. “If you as a human don’t learn how to work in both worlds—AI and human—you’re the one who will get replaced.” – Kelly Lichtenberger Key Takeaways for Modern SDR Leaders Outreach requires 25+ touches—design for persistence. Shift KPIs from activity metrics to pipeline quality. Personalization is a non-negotiable—test, learn, templatize. Emotional intelligence builds trust where AI cannot. Adopt buying group motions—multi-thread every deal. Hire for traits, not résumés. Coachability wins. AI will augment SDRs, not replace them—unless they refuse to adapt. Final Word Sales development isn’t dying—it’s evolving. The SDRs who embrace creativity, curiosity, and emotional intelligence will thrive, while those who cling to outdated, volume-heavy tactics will struggle. HiBob’s Kelly Lichtenberger reminds us that the human touch is still the ultimate differentiator in sales. “Be interested, not interesting.” – Kelly Lichtenberger Want to hear more stories from revenue leaders? Subscribe to The Revenue Lounge podcast to never miss an episode! More Resources

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Selling to People, Not Personas: Redefining B2B Sales with Buyer-First Intelligence

Selling to People, Not Personas: Redefining B2B Sales with Buyer-First Intelligence A conversation with Amarpreet Kalkat, Founder & CEO at HumanticAI. In the era of hyper-informed buyers and complex purchasing journeys, traditional sales strategies are crumbling. Outdated, persona-based approaches no longer resonate in a world where buyers are more skeptical, independent, and resistant to generic outreach. In a recent episode of Revenue Lounge, we sat down with Amarpreet Kalkat, Founder and CEO of Humantic AI, to unpack what it truly means to adopt a buyer-first approach. And how personality-driven sales is transforming the way sellers connect, engage, and win. This blog dives deep into Amarpreet’s insights, drawing from his 25+ years of experience in building intelligent products, and explores how his technology is helping sales teams humanize the sales process. Facebook Twitter Youtube The Buyer’s World Has Arrived and Sellers Must Adapt “You don’t sell. You help people buy.”— Amarpreet Kalkat In Amarpreet’s view, sales has always been about the buyer—but never more so than today. With dozens of vendors offering similar solutions, what separates winners from the rest isn’t product features or aggressive pitching. It’s perspective. The problem? Most sales methodologies—whether it’s MEDDIC, Challenger, or SPIN—are seller-centric. They teach sellers to “run their playbook,” not necessarily to understand their buyers as people. But data shows the stark gap: Average seller win rate: 17% Elite seller win rate: 62% That’s not just a small performance delta—it’s a chasm. And Amarpreet believes the secret to closing that gap lies in a true shift to buyer-first thinking. Stop Selling to Personas. Start Selling to People. Sales teams often anchor outreach strategies around personas—job titles, functions, firmographics. But Amarpreet challenges that framework: “A persona doesn’t buy. A person does.” With Humantic AI, sellers can move from broad persona targeting to individual buyer intelligence, understanding not just what a prospect does—but who they are. This includes: Communication preferences Personality traits (based on DISC profiling) Risk appetite Decision-making style Motivators and fears This human layer enables sales reps to craft emails, calls, and presentations tailored to how a specific buyer thinks—not just their role. https://youtu.be/iMDGlZVhaBc How Personality AI Works Behind the Scenes So how does Humantic AI gather this intelligence? It pulls public data from LinkedIn and other online sources It processes that data through proprietary DISC-based AI models It surfaces insights on personality traits, behavior patterns, and communication style These insights are delivered directly into tools sellers already use—Salesforce, LinkedIn, Salesloft, Outlook, and more The goal? Equip sellers with buyer-aware recommendations at every step of the deal. And it’s more than just better email intros. Amarpreet explains how Humantic can even suggest whether to open an email with a friendly “Hope you’re doing well” or skip that for a more concise greeting—based on the buyer’s disposition. The Impact: Real Results from Real Companies Skeptical about the impact of buyer intelligence? The numbers speak for themselves. One client saw win rates jump from 15% to 50% Another reported a 151% increase in pipeline for a test group Public company Domo cited a 15–30% lift in win rates after adopting Humantic AI And it’s not just about closing deals faster. Amarpreet emphasizes how personality data helps navigate complex buying committees. With up to 12–14 stakeholders involved in B2B decisions, understanding the emotional and decision triggers of each person is critical. “Deals are lost in rooms sellers never enter. We help you win in those rooms.” Operationalizing Buyer Intelligence in the Sales Process Humantic AI is designed to work across the entire sales journey—not just top-of-funnel outreach: Stage Tool/Feature Use Case BDR/SDR Chrome Extension / Outreach Integration Personalized email and call scripts AE Meeting Prep Tools Pre-meeting research and message customization Sales Team Buying Committee Map Stakeholder analysis and engagement planning RevOps Platform Integration Insight management within CRM and SEP tools   And unlike many AI tools that overwhelm teams, Humantic focuses on enhancing human touchpoints, not replacing them. AI Isn’t Just a Buzzword. It’s a Strategic Lever In today’s crowded AI market, Amarpreet warns against getting distracted by shiny tools: “AI should be wings for the flyers and crutches for the walkers.” For sales leaders evaluating AI, he recommends starting with problems, not features. What’s the root challenge—low CRM usage? Poor email response rates? Ineffective stakeholder engagement? The right AI tool should solve that problem with minimal friction. A Path to Sales Respect and Buyer Trust Amarpreet closes the conversation on a powerful, personal note. Despite being the lifeblood of the economy, sales still lacks social respect. “Nobody grows up saying, ‘I want to be a salesperson.’ But without sales, nothing moves.” He draws an analogy to doctors—once seen as quacks, now among the most respected professions. Amarpreet believes sales can earn that respect too—but only if sellers embrace empathy and buyer-first engagement at scale. Actionable Takeaways for Sales Teams Here’s how to start implementing a buyer-first approach right now: ✅ Audit your current outreach — Are you customizing based on personas or individuals? ✅ Understand your buyers’ decision-making styles — Tools like DISC can help. ✅ Invest in emotional intelligence — Winning trust requires more than just logic. ✅ Use AI to amplify, not automate — Layer intelligence onto your existing workflows. ✅ Map your buying committees — Know the silent killers and what drives them. ✅ Treat sales as a helping profession — Shift your team culture from persuasion to enablement. Final Thoughts Personality-driven selling isn’t a gimmick—it’s a competitive edge. In a world where buyers ghost generic pitches, deep personalization rooted in emotional intelligence is the new table stakes. With tools like Humantic AI and leaders like Amarpreet paving the way, the future of B2B sales looks a lot more human. Want to hear more stories from revenue leaders? 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